Recommended Resources
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On-Demand Focusing Classes
Product Being kind to myself hasn’t always come easy to me. One thing that really helped was Ann Weiser Cornell’s online course, Finding Freedom From Inner Critics. It helped me discover all the ways inner critics were taking a toll on my well-being (some of them were surprising). And it gave me useful (and easy) practices to help relieve the pain of feeling not quite good enough. If you have Parts that criticize, shame or blame you this course really helps! Find out how to change the way you relate to the Parts that criticize you.
Healthy boundaries help you give without over-giving, receive without getting taken over, and live your own life instead of somebody else’s. The people around you can trust you more. Your relationships get on stronger, safer footing. Best of all, YOU can trust YOURSELF more.
But how do you get healthier boundaries? The answer is surprisingly simple… with practice. Now, there’s a great way to get that practice! Ann Weiser Cornell’s, 21-Days to Healthier Boundaries.
…for a calm center
You Can’t Run on Empty: Create More Rest & Self-Care in 21 Days
Self-care isn’t just about finding ways to unwind. It’s about taking care of your well-being at every level. Yet, prioritizing self-care can be hard, especially if you’ve heard it’s selfish. And when you’re really running on empty, it’s even harder because you don’t have the energy or clarity to figure out what self-care even looks like. But there is an easy way to give yourself micro-moments of inner rest throughout your day.
Let me introduce you to You Can’t Run on Empty: Create More Rest & Self-Care in 21 Days. It’s a powerful online course you can take on your own schedule in just minutes a day. You get an immediate sense of relaxation and a daily invitation to identify what you need so you can start giving it to yourself (without turning self-care into a chore!).
Self-in-Presence…and Parts
“Who you really are in your deepest self is not your trouble, not your hurt, not your distress. Who you really are is calm, strong, compassionate Presence.”
– Ann Weiser Cornell
Learn how to nourish your ability to be resilient and calm no matter what life throws at you. Because when you can be calm and steady, everything in life gets easier.
…For Decision Making and New Habits…
The Urge to Indulge
Wish you could change your habits? Learn how to transform unhealthy behaviors without evoking shame or self-blame. Whether it’s wasting time on the internet, tuning out with the TV, drinking away the night, or eating to avoid your feelings. Discover how to change your habits gently (and in a way that works).
Releasing Blocks to Action
Do you feel stuck, like something you want to do is just impossible?
Ann Weiser Cornell knew she wanted to write and publish books, but she just couldn’t do it. Every time she tried something would go wrong. One day, out of sheer desperation, she imagined that there must be a part of her who didn’t want to write. That moment opened the door for profound change. Since then Ann has written numerous books and words now flow easily for her. What changed? She discovered the good reason part of her didn’t want to write. She developed empathic prompts for listening to this part of herself and she turned that entire process into a course called, Releasing Blocks to Action. If you long to do something and keep stopping yourself, join a worldwide community of people who are empowering themselves to move forward again with Ann’s work.
At the Crossroads
Are you facing big decisions that are hard to make? Decisions can be tough. Some decisions can feel torturous. It’s easy to make the decision one way, then doubt and second guess the choice. But decisions don’t have to pull you apart…they CAN pull you back together again. Learn how to make calmer, clearer decisions.
…for the hard times…
Navigating Loss & Change
If you feel like you’re being hit by a lot of loss and change right now, Navigating Loss & Change, a 3-week on-demand course with Ann Weiser Cornell, can help you move through feelings of confusion and the unknown with more trust and self-compassion.
In the midst of disruption and uncertainty, you can find invincible new life.
The Rock and The Hard Place: Exploring the Gifts of Pain
Is the struggle with pain a daily reality for you? Being in pain is like being between a rock and a hard place. The Rock: I am in pain. The Hard Place: I want it to stop. It’s hard enough to be in pain without also being in self-blame about what it means about you, and in anxiety about whether it will go on forever.
Do you want to radically shift your relationship with pain? The Rock and the Hard Place: Exploring the Gifts of Pain course can help. Discover how simple pain becomes when we step outside all the reactivity around it.
Loving the Unlovable
If you suffer from shame or lack of self-love, even occasionally, Loving the Unlovable, a 3-week on-demand course with Ann Weiser Cornell, can help you shift how you view (and how much you appreciate) the most “unlovable” parts of yourself. Rediscover that you have everything you need to love yourself exactly as you are.
Holding On & Letting Go
Are your things taking over your life? Do you climb the walls with stress at the mere thought of sorting through piles or having to figure out what to do with the things you’ve accumulated? Have you tried asking yourself it if brings you joy or resolving to throw out things you haven’t used in a year, only to find it impossible to accomplish? The good news is there’s help. With Holding On & Letting Go – a 5-week audio course by Ann Weiser Cornell – you can learn a radical new way to consciously hold on to what you love and let go of what you no longer need.
Audio Course
Radical Gentleness
Is your Inner Critic causing you pain? Do you find yourself thinking thoughts like: Why can’t I get things right? They wouldn’t want me if they knew what I’m really like, or sometimes I can be so stupid…
Imagine never again feeling criticized by voices inside you or by people outside you! Learn how with Radical Gentleness – a 5-week audio course for transforming your experience of inner criticism to one of inner acceptance.
Philosophy, Focusing & Dreams
Got dreams? Are they mysterious, puzzling, and seem important but you don’t know how? Do you want another way to understand them that lies beyond traditional methods of dream interpretation? Focusing can help! The Philosophy, Focusing & Dreams audio course gives a series of steps you can use to engage the possibilities of your dreams. With this 5-week audio course, you get two powerful teachers, Eugene Gendlin and Ann Weiser Cornell, bringing you potent processes for finding a new way forward with your dream.